So after wasting plenty of time here i am posting my first blog,yeah i know i should have started it at the very moment when i got the idea but i was not able to write because of my list of excuses😅.My sole purpose of writing this blog is help people who are thinking of writing a blog(or other unprecedented things) and obviously to make them familiar with my content.
I am a college student and just like other teenager i am also stuck in my own world of becoming successful but here comes out Indian education system bonding us to the custom of working as a labour. Therefore in order to pave your own path you have to do something different that most of the people don't do ,so i was thinking of someways and i thought of writing a blog.I went to my friend Pratyush Shekhar who was already writing blogs.Since i live in hostel i immediately went to him for his advice.He seemed to be more excited than me and he gave me great ideas and tips infact he was the one who helped me setup this page.He write great blogs please go to his page and give it a read https://thesoulmeltingwords.blogspot.com/ .
Now it was the time to write a blog i spent 2-3 days thinking about the topic but then i wrote a para hardly comprising of 100 words and then i stopped ,though my friend Pratyush kept on encouraging me.My prime reasons to postpone it were:
Fear:
I was always thinking what will others think about me if my blog is not good enough and will they judge me.Believe me nobody cares really nobody cares.If everyone will start thinking like that then no one will be able to start anything .Trust me just start doing the thing you want to and once you will overcome your fear you will feel like walking in the same old road.
Excuses:
Stop giving excuses like you are the most busiest man of the world. 'I didn't get time' is the most lame and universal excuse .If you have to do something you have to give a try.Stop thinking about the results whether the work you are going to do will be a success/brand or be a failure.If you think about this in the beginning then you might end up doing nothing.I have learned that you have to be consistent in your work and you can be consistent only if you love doing that work.
Irregular Schedule:
An irregular schedule can always block your path leading towards your goal.I had a really bad schedule and I had no fixed time for anything .One day i can sleep for 5 hrs and other day i can sleep for 10 hrs .Due to this improper schedule i was not able to give adequate time to any activity i was doing.I am able to write this blog because from past few days i am working on improving my schedule.So work on your schedule and you will never give the reason that 'i didn't get time'.
Laziness:
This is one problem that most of the people face and it is the most difficult one to overcome but remember my friend its not impossible to fight it away.Remember one day you will have to leave your indolence and work hard but why not today?Just remember that no one wants your good not even your best friend ,there are only two people who thinks of your good and they are your parents.
I was too lazy to do things and even today i am lazy but till what time, one day i will have to leave my laziness and work."Remember the best way to get something done is to begin".
Once you will improve these aspects of yours ,you will be able to think properly and start the work you want to do.Just make sure that you don't listen to people who discourage you and begin the work, step by step you will become good at it.Don't think that the work you are doing will pay you nothing it will pay you in the form of skills.Like i am writing this blog and i have noticed two things:
- First when you are browsing the web for new words it will help you to improve your vocabulary.
- Second,typing continuously for long time will help you improve your typing skills .
Hope you found this content helpful.So here in this page i will be posting content related to men lifestyle but that doesn't mean that my every post will be men specific there are some topics which cover both male and female interest like this current blog.Please ignore the small mistakes (if any) and also tell on which topic do you want me to write in my next blog.Lets take our first step from a man to a gentleman.
